The Holiday Season When There Aren’t Enough Funds
Whether you’re pushing for the holiday sales or you’re trying to find one of those seasonal birthday presents, it’s tough this year. You see all of these fantastic deals spread out across the medias, but the truth is that the sale items are often limited and only go to a few lucky customers. Everyone else has to pay full price. One way to combat this is to restrict your holiday budget and plan within it. If a gift pushes you too far, then it’s time to buy something else.
For instance, if you pick up that black sport watch on your list but can’t afford the GPS accessories you were going to get, which do you put back? Keep the affordable one and replace the not so affordable one. That way you can get everyone a gift and not blow the budget on just one or two.
When you are feeling the drive to make sure that your gifts look fair, you might want to reconsider how you’re buying gifts this year. When you buy transformers for your child you often end up with numerous packages, none of which cost that much. Yet it looks like they received more so you want to make sure that everyone is counted. Unfortunately, this not only strips you of your budget, but it can strip away what the holidays are really about.
We spend so much because we are after a sense of fairness. We often tend to look toward the gifts we have purchased and evaluate them by value. The more we spend on one gift the more we equate the value of it. When you break it down it doesn’t really work like that at all.
We send a message through our gifts. The message has gotten a bit distorted over the years. Gifts are a token of appreciation, acknowledgment, and even symbolic representations of love. But those things can not be measured by the amount of money you spent, only by how well you know the person and can present them with a token that means something.
Families that are struggling can agree that everyone only buys one gift for each other. Turn the focus this year toward time together, that special holiday meal, and some of the traditions that can signify the holidays without being expensive. Time together and fun together can be a special gift as well. We have just forgotten how special it really is.
Yes, there is a seasonal hardship throughout the nation’s families. Some families will choose to put off paying bills and spend two or three months trying to catch up. Yet other families will volunteer, spend real time together, and come away from the holiday season renewed instead of stressed.
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